From Expectations to Acceptance : Working peacefully in a group

In order to work peacefully in a group do the following, Give your idea as an expert, with authority and enthusiasm, then let go of it, but listen carefully and with interest to the ideas of others. Love is shown through respect. When you respect, you can speak up clearly and the rest will listen to you. From Expectations to Acceptance, Getting on with people is tough, especially when they don’t fulfill your expectations! Instead, if you accept people the way they are without expecting…

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Pack Up Your Thoughts and Learn From Your Mistakes

When you make a mistake, learn from it, resolve not to repeat it and then forget about it. You will feel better again. Do the same with others, instead of making their mistakes bigger, dissolve them in your mind and help them also to forget about them. A sensible person does not criticize the mistakes of others, instead, he learns from them for the future. Pack Up Your Thoughts, What are you choosing to hold onto in your mind? You can always pack-up all the…

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Heart’s Call to Forgiveness

Why is it hard to forgive others? Usually because we believe that they are 90% to blame for the problem, that I am not as bad as they are. So I start to carry the load of other people’s actions. If my ego is too hurt, I will have the sense of correction, of justice: ‘I know I am right’, ‘That is not fair’. But if I start to forgive from the heart, sincerely, then this kind of feeling and attitude begins to dissolve. I…

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