In order to work peacefully in a group do the following, Give your idea as an expert, with authority and enthusiasm, then let go of it, but listen carefully and with interest to the ideas of others.
Love is shown through respect. When you respect, you can speak up clearly and the rest will listen to you.
From Expectations to Acceptance, Getting on with people is tough, especially when they don’t fulfill your expectations! Instead, if you accept people the way they are without expecting them to be something they’re not, you end up less disappointed and frustrated.
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